Reputations are built around the
image people develop of you and the standards to which they will hold you. From
a young age, my grandfather from my mother’s side told me that people would
always appreciate a hard worker; he explained to me that people enjoy being
around someone who is always working towards his goals and who does things well
when doing favors. I took my grandfathers advice to heart and from an early age
I worked hard on the things I did whether it was my schoolwork, doing shores at
my house or doing work at my job. With that being said, I developed a
reputation of being a hard worker within my friend group, family and work site.
The first memory that comes to mind
of someone referring to me as a hard worker is when I was in the fourth grade
and I memorized the entire times table (from 1 to 12) while everyone else was
still practicing how to multiply by 2. My mother had told me that it never hurt
to get ahead, which inspired me to get ahead of the pack; I would do extra math
problems from the text book we were given and I would look at the times table
when I was bored. My fourth grade teacher was so surprised that she even used
me to teach the other kids how to multiply higher numbers. My reputation as a
hard worker within my family developed when I would always offer to help with
shores. I would help my mother with house shores during summer vacation whether
it was doing the dishes, sweeping or taking out the garbage. My reputation went
beyond my immediate family and my family from Mexico took notice of my
servitude when I would always offer to clean dishes after a big family dinner.
I furthered developed my reputation
as a hard worker once I entered my freshman year at college. When alumni from
my high school would go and speak about their college life they would always
mentioned how ridiculously difficult college was in comparison to highs school.
Such a thought ignited some sort of panic within me and I became a workaholic
thinking that would be the only way for me to succeed in college. I studied
whenever I had free time and my friends took notice of that, further enforcing
my reputation as a hard worker. My reputation didn’t stop at schoolwork, my team
members from organizations I was involved in and co-workers also took notice of
my work ethic. Team members from my RSO’s took notice on how quickly I got my
work done, sometimes even helping other of my team members get their respective
work done as well. At work, my supervisors and manager took notice of my work
ethic when they realized how many extra shifts I would pick up and how I was
always motivated to get out on time with the job being well done, eventually
leading to a promotion.
Being a handworker sometimes gets me
in trouble as I tend to pick up more than I can handle at times. There have
been various occasions were I though I could handle tons of work and either
didn’t perform the tasks as I should have or had to postpone their completion.
There have been times when unrealistic expectations have been set for me as
well due to my reputation. Back when I used to work summers at Millennium Park
my boss would write me up to work multiple double shifts that accumulated to a
dozens of overtime hours over the summer, which eventually took a toll on my
physical health. At times, I have been too stubborn to realize when I have too
much on my plate, but as of recently I’ve learned how to manage my time more
effectively so as not to overwhelm myself, but most importantly I’ve learned to
say no when too much is being piled up on me.
Though not proud of some choices
I’ve made, I’ve cashed in on my reputation to get immediate gains and therefore
sacrificing future gains. For example, I have given up study time that could
have guaranteed higher grades in order to have more leisure time. Something
that might have been nice in the moment but not in the long run. There have
also been times were I pretend I’m not as hardworking as I really am so the
expectations of my work wont be as high as they would otherwise. Again, choices
that concentrate on the short run since I won’t be considered as highly as
someone that gives their all at work.