Since and early age, my father’s fascination for Trucks has
been admirable. Though he was by no means a poor performing student in school,
it was evident what he’s career path would be; anything involving trucks and
construction. Once my father had finished he’s high school education here in
the United States, and my grandfather had saved enough money, they returned to
their native land where my grandfather opened up he’s own construction
business. He’s business required him to purchase three trucks, a front loader, tools,
and to stock up his business with the required inventory and employees. Knowing
his son’s fascination for trucks, my grandfather gave him one of he’s three
trucks. My father was eager to learn and once he did, he took full advantage
and worked long and hard for the family business. He’s fascination for trucks
grew so much that he even learned the mechanics behind them; he learned how to
fix them, upgrade, and even how to assemble them.
My
grandfather’s business prospered for quite some time, but once he began to make
good money his live choices began to take a turn for the worse. He began to
drink often and even began to gamble. His choices and his business correlated
and he began to loose customers to upcoming similar businesses. My grandfather
became so distressed that he decided to take a break from he’s business and
knowing my father had come to know the how to run the place he decided to leave
him in charge. The business had a quick turn for the best; he increased the
inventory and purchased more trucks to accommodate for the recent increase in
demand for construction material. Having an expertise in mechanics, my father
began to take the lead in fixing the broken down machinery saving the business
money. The business was growing prosperous once again and then a golden
opportunity for my father arose, my grandfather had decided to return to the
United States to work for his friend and he offered my father ownership of his
home and the business. It was a perfect gift and a perfect opportunity for a
man who just had his first child. Though one would imagine my father’s decision
to be obvious, he declined my grandfather’s offer and decided to also leave for
the U.S with his family, leaving the business behind.
Knowing
about my father’s fascination for trucks and construction, I was at awe when he
told his story, yet his reasoning is somewhat understandable. From his perspective
he felt that he would be taking advantage of my grandfather’s situation and he
felt that he’s family needed him. Though his decision seemed noble to him at
the time, in retrospect, he regrets not giving the idea a chance. For one, it
was a passion for him to work with trucks and construction and he had made the
business prosper when it was on a decline, everything was already set and it
would have been a great opportunity for his new family (me being he’s new
child). My father also explained to me that he thought more would come with
patience. Since he already had an expertise on how to run a business he thought
that with patience he could restart the old family business here in the United
States. Some good did come out of my father’s patience since he did end up
purchasing three trucks of his own, two of which he rents out to other truck
driver’s and he did give his family a good life here in the U.S, a life that
might not have been possible at his native land, but who knows, perhaps he did
miss out on a more well off life.
As
previously discussed, some people might miss an opportunity due to being a
“good citizen” or because being opportunistic might be considered unethical or
maybe just because they believe good things come to those that wait like my
father did. Though all those reasons might be noble, there might exist other
reasons why people fail to be more opportunistic; some people might miss out on
an opportunity due to the fear of failure. For example, though my father did
explain he’s reasoning for not taking advantage of the opportunity he might not
have seized the moment due to the fear of not keeping up the good work, or
perhaps he felt that he needed my grandfather’s guidance. Regardless of the
reason, missing an opportunity all have the same results in the short run. The
respective individual missed a chance to either better him self or perhaps dogged
failure, but regardless of the reason behind missing the opportunity the
immediate outcome is the same. Thought the immediate outcome is the same, the
long term outcome might turn out to be different depending on the reason for
not taking advantage of an opportunity. Someone who feared taking risk might
fear to take another chance later in the future as well, on the other hand,
someone who was being patient and waited for another opportunity might be
better of in the long run due to an even better one.
Thank you for this story. It is obvious that you have strong feelings for your family.
ReplyDeleteMost of what you said made sense in the telling, but I didn't understand why your father would feel he would be taking advantage of your grandfather by running the business. Did you grandfather have the alternative of selling the business to somebody else and by running it your father then blocked the profits from sale? Or did your father expect your grandfather to return from the U.S. in the near future and, if so, it would be fair if your father made changes int he business that your grandfather wouldn't have approved? The essay would have been better if you included some such explanation. As it is, the reader is left hanging.
I do appreciate what you wrote near the end, that maybe what your father told you about the experience didn't give his real reason for not taking over the business. Even if that is true, what your father did tell you should have made sense. Otherwise you wouldn't have believed it, even for a minute.
Also, I normally don't correct grammar and word usage in these comments. But since you did this repeatedly in this essay, where you wrote "he's" you should instead write "his".
Thank you for the feedback.
ReplyDeleteTo answer the first question, my father felt that he would be taking advantage of my grandfather by taking over the business because the only reason the opportunity arose was due to the unfortunate events occurring to my grandfather at the time. My father believed that had my grandfather been emotionally stable the offer would of never came, and thus he believed he was taking advantage of situation even though it was out of his control. I was never told if my grandfather would have sold the business to someone else, I highly doubt it because it was never taken over by anyone else after my father’s departure and my grandfather still holds ownership of the land in which the business used to be. I am also unaware whether my father believed my grandfather would return back to his homeland in the near future after his departure or not, but I do know my father had no intentions of going back anytime soon since he believed America would provide a good life for his new family.
I do fully believe my father’s explanation to why he refused to take over the business, but I still think he might have had some fear in running the place by himself, especially considering he now had a wife and a child to raise.
My apologies about the grammar, I did notice I made that mistake a couple of times and I thought I had corrected most of them.